Where do they go? And should you care if your ex still has your nudes? The answers are mixed. For some, like Cindy Gallop—founder of Make Love Not Porn, a NSFW video site dedicated to correcting porn-based myths about sex —keeping nudes from past lovers is a way to reminisce about good times from her past. In my case, I consider and I treat those nudes as just a really nice and entirely private personal reflection. I treat those nudes as just a really nice and entirely private personal reflection. After all, though nudes are raunchy by nature, they can also be really sweet. Though Olivarius litigates revenge porn cases, she very much understands the appeal of sending nudes despite the risks involved. Former lovers are former lovers for a reason.
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Messages You have no messages. Notifications You have no notifications. All Topics. Type your question. Enter more details. I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years now, love each other very much and more than happy in our relationship. We recently we went away on holiday and took loads of photos. Whilst she was out of the room i wanted to send myself some of the photos she took to upload myself and came across several dick pics and snapchat screenshots of her ex. Now these weren't recently saved etc, but wernt hidden. I scrolled past the holiday photos and they were scattered in what i assume is a collection of all of her old phones photos.
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At first I thought he might have lied about quitting smoking, or had started to use chewing tobacco instead. At first it looked innocent enough, just pictures of their outings and whatnot. Nothing big. Then I looked in the subfolders and found that he had kept her nudes! Like really dirty nudes.
New Here? Dear Wendy is a relationship advice blog. You can read about me here , peruse the archives here and read popular posts here. You can also follow along on Facebook and Instagram. Thanks for visiting! I chose to believe him as everything else between us is so perfect. But seeing those nudes of his ex on his phone has made me not want to attend the wedding. My question is: Should he still go? Should I let him go and should I then get over it even though I have been anxious for weeks, am hurt that he still wants to go, and am uncomfortable with the whole idea?